“So when are you having another one?”
“It must be time to give [insert child's name] a brother or sister!”
“Now you just need a [insert opposite sex of what your child is].
I know they mean well. The people who ask, “So when are you having another one?” They don’t see the knife turn a little more. They don’t know. It’s not that I don’t want “another one.” I do. I do with every fiber of my being.
In fact, we did try for another baby. Our daughter was almost eighteen months old. It was nine months past when I had told my husband I would entertain the idea of a second child. I jokingly told him it takes nine months to make a baby, please give me at least nine months to recover. I made the appointment with my midwife to have my IUD removed.
We had …